How to throw your child a virtual birthday party as social distancing continues

As schools remain closed and we continue to stay home, the chances that little ones born in April, May and maybe beyond will be celebrating their birthdays on-screen seems more and more likely

mum and kid on laptop keyboard
Get your little one’s input and plan a party that will keep them smiling

While several months ago we may have told a white lie so we could stay home and binge Netflix, nowadays we’ve worked our way through the streaming service and are regretting all those Friday nights in.

But thanks to video calling programs and apps such as Zoom – first launched in 2011 – staying in has officially become the new going out with people between building towers and across borders alike uniting through their screens to chinwag, quiz and even workout.

And for kids – who are already only seeing their school friends via a virtual classroom when distance learning – their social lives are taking a similar digital turn.

So if your child has a birthday coming up, then you may want to start to think about throwing them a digital children’s birthday party. No clue where to start? Then follow our guide of tips and inspiration for a birthday party to remember.

Tips for planning a digital kid’s birthday party

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You’re never too old for a party bag, in our opinion

Send out party bags as invitations

Given you’ve planned far enough ahead, why not help build the pre-party excitement (for both your birthday boy or girl and their invitees) by putting together a party bag to have sent out to guests?

As well as detailing the hour and virtual space ahead of time, such party bags could also include any games or props to be used throughout the online celebrations, too.

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Even simple decorations help everyone get in the spirit of things

Don’t skip the decorations

Just because no-one will physically be coming into your home, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t dress it up for the occasion.

Fill the space with balloons, banners and bunting galore to help your little one get in the spirit, and make sure the party hats go out with the invites.

little boy fireman fancy dress
Because you may as well make use of all those fancy dress costumes before they grow out of them

Make it fancy dress

Because all parties are better in costume… Whether setting a theme and asking kids and parents to get crafty beforehand or simply letting little ones lose in the fancy dress box – everyone has one, right? Adding fancy dress to the mix will prolong the fun by giving guests something to do before all the screens are switched on, allowing for funny – and no doubt cute – moments between friends as their outfits are revealed.

Make the costumes go a little further too by doubling it up as a game – do the other kids have to guess what they are, or will they be in character the entire time? Sending out a prize to the best dressed post-party will put a smile on a little one’s face while they stay home too.

kids party hats clown wig
Be it a (non-terrifying) clown or a magician, a digital party doesn’t mean you have to skip on the children’s entertainer making an appearance

Call in outside help and stream entertainment

Had their heart set on a magician? Just because they can’t make it out to their favourite entertainer – be it a magician or the real life (ahem) Elsa stopping by for a visit – call in the help of a professional to keep the kids on each screen entertained.

Adding them to the video call as a surprise will surely result in an outburst of excitable high-pitched screams.

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Musical Statues for the entire family is encouraged

Pre-plan your games

Whether you’re a ‘planning is key’ kind of person or you live by the rule ‘organised fun is no fun’ – you have to admit that excitable six year olds grouped together with no sense of structure is a recipe for chaos – iPad or no iPad.

So avoid a herd of children screaming down a microphone and pre-plan some games. Some classic party games can still work, such as Simon Says, Musical Statues and general trivia questions – but the more inventive you can get, the better!

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Whether it’s colouring a birthday card before the party or making a paper mache creation all together

Set a crafty challenge

If you’ve got a little one who loves getting their hands dirty, make this part of their virtual celebrations. Set a challenge for the kids (with the help of mums, dads, siblings, aunts – anyone!) to create something from paper mache or clay, do some drawings or perhaps even do a painting for the birthday girl or boy.

Kids will love chatting along together as they get creative and are given a dedicated time and space for messy play.

two little girls eating pizza
Because there’s never a bad time for pizza

Order-in party food

We’re not sure about you, but the most exciting thing about going to a party when we were kids was all the food that came along with it. Actually, not much has changed as we moved into adulthood, either…

You could throw a pizza party and send a delivery box to pals’ homes so they can eat, play video games and chat together. Or ask their guardians to get in a few of their favourite snacks (favour to be returned later down the line, of course). Making sure the party rituals such as snacks, drinks and a slice of cake are still included will help it rival in-real-life get togethers.

Need more ideas for the annual date? Here’s how to plan the perfect kid’s party at home, from themes to food.

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